My 49th Birthday Changed Everything: The Power of Real Connections

This past weekend, I celebrated my 49th birthday—and what started as a casual plan turned into something unforgettable.

I wasn’t planning a big party. In fact, I thought maybe 10 people would come by the house, we’d chill by the pool, share a few drinks, and keep it simple. But once we started writing the guest list, it grew—and not just in numbers. It grew in meaning.

We ended up with over 40 people at the house. Friends, family, people I love—and people who love me right back. And that’s when it hit me…

We often think we’re walking this journey alone. Especially as entrepreneurs, leaders, or creators—it’s easy to feel like it’s just you versus the world.

But the truth is, there are people out there who genuinely care. Who root for you. Who want you to win.

The Power of Presence

As the music played, people danced, and drinks flowed, I looked around and realized something profound: this is my tribe. These are the people I’ve chosen, and who have chosen me in return.

Some of them I talk to regularly. Some, not so much. But they were all there. And not because they had to be—because they wanted to be.

Their presence reminded me that we’re not meant to do life alone. We’re wired for connection. For support. For community.

Love Is Fuel

That day filled my cup in ways I didn’t expect. The energy, the laughter, the conversations—they reminded me how important love, respect, and intentional relationships are.

Let’s be real: we don’t always realize the impact we make on others. We don’t always hear the feedback or see the results. But that doesn’t mean it’s not there.

And when my godson spoke up during our family tradition of sharing gratitude after cake... man, I was in tears. It was a moment of truth. One of those rare instances where the love you’ve poured into the world reflects right back at you.

The Challenge to You

So here’s what I’m challenging YOU to do:

➡️ Make a list of the people you genuinely care about—and who genuinely care about you.
➡️ Reach out.
➡️ Express your gratitude.
➡️ Nurture those relationships.

Whether in life or in business, strong relationships are everything. They’re your support system, your referral network, your emotional fuel.

So take action today. Don’t wait.

I’m beyond grateful to everyone who showed up, who showed love, and who reminded me why I do what I do.

This episode is more than just a birthday recap—it’s a reminder to all of us: you’re not alone.

And if you feel like you are… reach out. Build your tribe. The right people will show up.

With love and gratitude,

David Adam Kurz